More and more remnant male remnant female people tell us a clear fact: Arrive already marry the ” after the “80 of the age, be in however dodge marriage, this among them, the male more very, for this, more and more females choose to propose actively, fear the be puzzled of marriage in order to solve.
The amour of Miss Su and male friend has taken 10 year, immerse to present photograph from the filled with apprehension of the knowledge at the beginning of the university with foam, the other side is the substantial in him life already, but, male friend does not propose tardy however.
Miss Su says: “ male friend is very old man creed, he is affirmatory all the time give me carefree life, but of pressure of the growth as age of 4 old people, life increase, male friend thinks the " of " economy dream of implementation is bigger and bigger also. I also think previously and he is hit together go all out, when marry again when economy is a bit better, but time is fleet, I now already 30 years old, do not want to wait again went down, so I put forward actively to marry to him, although he is shown slightly,hesitate, but still promised me propose. ”
Be in early 2008, release jointly in courtyard of Chinese company division and press of company division document " Chinese society situation was analysed 2008 with forecast " ever pointed out in the report, china is registered marry the number is decreasing continuously, first marriage age is deferred significantly, the ” after the “80 of close half the number admits he fears marriage.
Now, the ” after “80 already was walked into stage by stage and stand, if say 30 years old of the man to return appropriate good time, but number of 30 years old lets female people terrified however unceasingly.
Miss Liu says, the setting that just walked out of university school gate returns clearly to be in eye, in an instant oneself also “ goes straight towards 3 ” . In no matter be,the life still working on the net, the word of the ” after “90 is everywhere, oneself had been the ” that “ remains now, for not “ rots ” is in the hand, must hit out actively propose with the male friend that is in love two years.
Propose the woman is female of the ” after “80 more, they ever accompanied the green time that present male friend has taken a few years, they believe the other side is the other in part in him life, also believe the other side and him think of a way are same.
Male friend does not propose tardy, because of,having room or heavy room to borrow is disaster, if oneself are young,still can await a few years, but now already “ do not remove ” , put forward actively to marry, can alleviate not only the nerve that the other side stretchs tight closely, also can give each other feeling a space that breath. In the meantime, the female that proposes actively can succeed more.
The expert expresses, singleton of the ” after “80 female more, as a result of the family favorite, psychological maturity wants late-maturing than the person of other age administrative levels, a variety of worry that because give birth to vivid pressure, actuating pressure,generate at the same time make they produce scared psychology to marriage. Mostly the den that suffer from of man of the ” after “80 cannot give the other side a love, be ashamed proposes at the mouth, but they are not truly repellent marriage, be in however dodge, if a woman is in,do not have overmuch requirement economically, the man can build a family to it willingly surely.
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